Life Is Not Like A Box of Chocolate, It’s Like A Cup of Hot Chocolate

I had a conversation with someone about how society—in general—defines and perceives success in life as having material wealth, status and recognition, and how the assumption is that all that would lead to happiness even though that is not always the case. The following story came to my attention after the conversation and I thought the university professor in the story made a very good distinction using the analogy of hot chocolate as life. Courtesy of, read on to see how life and hot chocolate are very much alike.

Life & Hot Chocolate

 A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit, the conversation turned to complaints about stress in their work and lives. Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and an assortment of cups – porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite – telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.

When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said: “Notice that all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that you’re drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups…and then you began eyeing each other’s cups.

Now consider this: Life is the hot chocolate; your job, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life. The cup you have does not define, nor change the quality of life you have. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate God has provided us. God makes the hot chocolate, man chooses the cups. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that they have. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. And enjoy your hot chocolate.”

I have nothing against good and expensive cups as long as they do not detract from the enjoyment of the hot chocolate. I also maintain that it is difficult to enjoy the hot chocolate if the cup that is holding it is crack, chipped and leaking. What are your thoughts? I would love to hear from you so leave me a comment at the end of this post. I look forward to reading them.

To Hot Chocolate,

Chiao Kee

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